The Homecoming

For no real reason, I have decided to tell the story of our wedding in reverse order. I suppose this does increase the chances I will have a really really good picture of my beautiful bride by the time I want to talk about the wedding day, but that thought had not occurred to me until just now.

Wednesday of the week after our wedding, Heather and I started the day near Tabernash Colorado, in a really awesome little cabin. Packing up took a lot longer than I was expecting. Checkout was slated for 11-ish, and I figured we could beat 11 by at least 30 minutes. We ended up missing by about 30 minutes… welcome to married life I guess 🙂 Our hosts weren’t too worried about our checkout time so it really didn’t matter.

Our drive out of the mountains was somewhat complicated by wind. Wind shouldn’t be that big of a deal, but every night we had gotten one – two inches of powdery snow. The snow was blowing into near whiteout conditions on some of the early areas of the drive. Fortunately that didn’t last long, but the road was fairly slick for the first hour or so of our drive.

Once hitting Denver, we discovered the main route to the airport was closed for the day, but my awesome navigator wife managed to plot a new path to the airport using the dinky little map that came with our rental car. We made it to the airport without any trouble after that. Once in the airport, we managed to get moved up to a flight leaving five hours sooner than our original departure time. (we hadn’t planned on driving straight to the airport from the bed and breakfast, but were ready to come home by Wednesday) The change wasn’t free, but was well worth it.

I am not sure if its good or bad, but we made it back with time to tackle the mountain of gifts waiting for us in the apartment. This picture was taken after we were quite a ways into the process:

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( Sorry about the really small size of these pictures, wordpress is being a pain about squishing the aspect ratio of pictures unless I keep them smaller than the width of the text area. I could post thumbnails and link to images posted somewhere else on the site, but getting the posts up is enough of a project right now)

We had a pretty good system for the gifts, Heather logged items to a master spreadsheet:

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While I opened gifts:

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After a few hours, we had everything unwrapped, and some of it put away. Unfortunately we ran out of energy before dealing with the packaging:

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It was probably bad planning to pile it all in front of the door when we had to go to work in the morning. To be honest I don’t remember what we did… I guess we must have just dug a path and then carried it all down the next day.

-Jordan

Picture Update

A number of people have asked about viewing the pictures on our photographers website.

To my knowledge she hasn’t actually posted anything. You can see the text “Heather and Jordan” listed under weddings there, but its not a link.

As soon as I know more I will let people know, and probably post something on the blog as well as the main wedding site.

I also hope to get a note about the pictures not being up yet on the main site, but it might be a few days before I have time to sit down and do that 😦

-Jordan

Its Been A Little Over A Week…

And…

  • Heather and I are home
  • The apartment is 99%  cleaned up
  • We have unpacked and stowed every gift and item that recently entered the apartment.

The process of cleaning up and putting away everything did cause some stress between Heather and I. As much time as we were spending together before the wedding, we somehow never really came to terms with our approach to planning chores. We both just took care of things like cleaning and laundry when we weren’t together.

In the end, it was a great week, and everything that we wanted done got taken care of. The process though… 🙂 I don’t want it to sound like we had huge fights over anything, we just had to figure out priorities and planning styles some. I can’t imagine what it would have been like having to move one of us into the apartment over the weekend, much less moving both of us into a house.

Thank you writing will be a challenge we have to tackle soon, and we are just starting to address how meals get taken care of. Laundry and managing the budget are still in there too… Lets just say we still have things to figure out, but the first week has been really great! Not always easy, but not hard ether, just felt like something that took a little thought and effort.

Speaking of food, one of the many great items we were given was a crock pot. I have all kinds of plans for that puppy, and happened to have stumbled upon some fairly straightforward “quick” recipes for them today. Posting them here so I can find them again:  (All shamelessly stolen from The Simple Dollar)

  1. Combine all of this into a crock pot.
  2. Add salt and pepper to taste.
  3. Turn it on low and walk away for eight hours.
  4. Add a quarter of a cup of water for every additional two hours you intend to cook it.

Creamy Chicken Casserole

1 can condensed cream of chicken soup (chicken & herbs if you can find it)
1 small can mushroom pieces (a 4 ounce can, drain off the water first)
1/2 chopped red onion
1 1/2 pounds skinless, boneless chicken breasts (cut into strips if you’d like)
1/4 cup white wine (optional)

Crock Pot Chili
1 large can tomato sauce
1 pound lean ground beef
2 cans beans (kidney beans are fine, but you can use whatever you like)
2 tablespoons chili powder
1/4 cup diced onion (or onion salt)

Simple Pot Roast
1 2 to 2.5 lb. roast
2 cups chopped carrots
2 cups chopped potatoes
1 cup chopped celery
3 cups beef broth or beef stock

Ham and Potato Casserole
4 red potatoes, sliced
2 red onions, finely chopped
1 1/2 pounds cubed ham
1 can condensed cream of celery soup, diluted according to can directions
2 tablespoons flour

(This one is very good with cheese on top just before you serve it.)

Shredded Beef Sandwiches
2 pounds beef brisket
1 tablespoon olive oil
2 1/2 cups beef broth or beef stock
2 cloves minced garlic
1 chopped red onion

(Serve this on buns – magnificent!)

Breakfast Apple Cobbler
4 medium-sized apples, peeled and sliced (try Honey Crisps)
1/4 cup honey
1 teaspoon cinnamon
2 tablespoons melted butter
2 cups granola cereal

I hope to try one or two of these, there are a ton of recipes for slow cookers / crock pots out there, but fast and simple are really good attributes!

-Jordan

Home From The Honeymoon!

We made it home!

I hope to do a few recap posts soon, but I can tell you now that we had an amazing time. I really don’t understand how people do big trips on their honeymoon, Heather and I just wanted to sleep for the first two days after the wedding.

Fortunately we had an amazing place to just kick back and rest:

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That cabin is the perfect place to be if you want peace and quiet, and the surrounding forest was beautifully blanked in snow the entire time we were there. It was an amazing few days.

-Jordan

Its Midnight, Three Days Before The Wedding…

And what are we doing!!?

(Alert readers will no doubt notice this is posted after the fact, however the pictures were taken late at night last night)

Well, we aren’t wrapping gifts! Those are done! See:

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We finished wrapping gifts but Heather is still hard at work on the centerpiece construction:

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Because I am not writing this in real time, I can go ahead and tell you that we stuck it out and finished this project. Heather was back to Blair shortly before 1:00AM, just another short night in a rather long string of short nights.

This is, I am sure, the last post I will make here before the wedding… its still a ways off, but I think the excitement of it finally being here is going to carry Heather and I the rest of the way, despite our sleep deprived state.

Hope to see you all soon! 🙂

-Jordan

P.S. Almost forgot to mention, but as you can’t really see in the pictures, the apartment is very clean. Practically every goal we had for Wednesday night got completed!

The Final Week

Well, less than a week left! Really we have less than two days left to prepare, and then scheduled events begin.

I haven’t had time, to post for a few days… and somehow I feel terribly guilty about that 😦

anyway, what have we been up to?

  • Attended a first birthday party for our favorite baby sitting charge
  • Visited friends in the hospital who just had their first child ( perhaps a future contender for the title listed in #1?)
  • Ordered pictures for the table centerpiece decorations
  • Received and sorted six boxes of kitchen supplies from Pampered Chef
  • Prepared detailed itinerary for the wedding and preceding events
  • Coordinated with the majority of our wedding party
  • Met with our pastor to plan the wedding
  • Picked verses to be read at the wedding
  • Glued pictures to backing for centerpieces, started cutting them out
  • Finished shopping for gifts for wedding helpers
  • Confirmed with picture location for post wedding pictures
  • Finalized our joint auto insurance policy to start the day after we are married.

Whats left to do?

  • Finish the table centerpieces
  • Finish the pre-wedding slide show
  • wrap all the wedding gifts
  • clean the apartment

probably more, but I think I am repressing it 🙂

All that being said, I think we are doing ok as far as being ready for the wedding. Heather, and to a lesser extent myself are felling a lot of stress, probably more than we should, but its hard to not feel like the entire day depends on you.

-Jordan

Less Than Two Weeks Left!

The wedding is really getting close now, and I feel like my head is spinning. People ask “are you ready” meaning both personally and planning-wise, and I always say yes. I am ready personally, and I always think we are on top of the planning.

However, personally, I don’t really know if I have grasped the changes that are coming… I am pretty sure some of the best parts of being married I don’t even understand well enough to look forward to them. I am also sure the biggest adjustments are going to be much harder than I imagine, and center around issues I didn’t even know it was possible to consider issues. All that said, I can’t wait.

From a planning details perspective, we are ready… Except that there is a never-ending stream of little things that keep popping up. I can’t even begin to enumerate, or quantify everything. All I can say is that it feels like time is screaming by every time I try and sit down and take care of a few of these “quick” last-minute details. As best as I can tell, Heather and I are still managing to stay fairly normal, although we are both running on about half as much sleep as we should be getting. I can tell you we still love each other, although we may find each other much more lovable in about 3 weeks.

I feel compelled to try and write out some of the details I keep eluding too, but I really want to go lay down instead, and writing about them just makes them seem that much more of a big deal. They don’t need to be made into any more of a big deal 🙂

-Jordan

Another Week Down

… Leaving only two weeks remaining until the wedding!

This weekend, Heather will attend the fourth and final shower before the wedding. Also this weekend its looking like we will get questionable weather, again. I still hold out hope that we are getting all this out of the way before the wedding, but bad weather keeps consistently hitting on weekends as of late, it seems.

Driving conditons permitting, I plan to stop buy the church to see how it has been decorated by some other even, as a hot tip said they did a really good job. Hopefully I can get a few ideas for Heather and I to use. Not to say we don’t have any, but seeing something tried is a lot better than guessing how things might look. Sadly the weather is going to prevent Heather from getting a chance to see it, but maybe I can take some pictures 🙂

-Jordan

Wedding News! (We Should be Legal)

With sixteen days until the wedding I made it to the county clerk’s office to get started on a marriage license. Normally you can just walk in the day before the wedding and take care of that. With the vacation days remaining crisis Heather is facing, and the fact that they close at 5:00pm, we really can’t use the normal option.

The wording on their website is less than clear, and I thought initially that if both of us couldn’t be there, we only had the option of mailing the form in, and then involving a notary. After a phone call a week or so back however, I found out that I can get the form half done, in person, just by walking in.

They are located very much downtown, meaning I spent more time trying to find a place to park than I did in their office. Ether my luck with government offices is holding up, or Wednesday mornings aren’t a real busy time for issuing marriage licensees, so I was able to just walk up to the desk and talk to someone. The young woman was very friendly, and I really didn’t have to do anything other than raise my right hand and solemnly swear that the information on the sheet was accurate. Kind of odd, I only sort of managed to not have the worlds dumbest grin on my face while attesting to the birthplace of my parents.

Heather still has to sign the form in front of a notary, and then I have to return with the form so they can issue some other form, but at least we wont ever have the form somewhere in the mail.

-Jordan

Wedding Update

The wedding is now less than twenty days away.

Over the weekend, Heather discovered that the person who was set to arrange the flowers for the wedding isn’t going to be able to do them. The whole point of using silk flowers to begin with was to save money, and save headache because they would be done far in advance of the wedding.

Goal one remains intact, but goal two wasn’t going too well back in November when the flower lady said she didn’t want the flowers dropped off for her to work on until after the new year. Apparently she was low on storage and expecting to be busy with other things over Christmas. Sometime between then and now she apparently decided we had canceled with her, and moved on to other things. Unfortunately Heather didn’t discover this until Saturday.

On the bright side, she found out we needed a plan ‘B’ for flowers while she was in Kansas City, and while a number of her bridesmaids were in town. They put together a group of people with some experience doing flower arrangements and completely finished the flowers in one session Sunday! It created a frantic weekend for Heather in the midst of a shower, but in some ways its less stress than hoping the flowers would be done in time if we had gone with the lady that didn’t want to start until now.

My only wedding related progress was to book a hotel room for the two nights before the wedding. Heather seems to think she needs a place to stay before the wedding, and kicked me out for those days. It was kind of odd, I don’t think I had ever booked a room over the phone before. I am sure I could have figured out some way to do that online, but I wasn’t sure I would get linked with the wedding properly.

Sunday night, Heather returned from the KC shower/girlsNight/flowerArranging with her Civic packed to the gills with boxes. Again, I am overwhelmed by the generosity people have shown us, and amazed at the cool things we were given. I also don’t quite know how we are going to fit it all into the apartment, but Heather and I managed to find homes for nearly everything she brought back. We only had to stay up way later than ether of us wanted to, but at leas the “new stuff” factor provides enough excitement that it doesn’t feel too much like we are just forever putting dishes away. 🙂

-Jordan