Quick note, an alert bridesmaid alerted us to the fact that we have been added to the gallery on our photographers site.
Under “Galleries” select “happily ever after” you should be able to find us from there!
-Jordan and Heather
Quick note, an alert bridesmaid alerted us to the fact that we have been added to the gallery on our photographers site.
Under “Galleries” select “happily ever after” you should be able to find us from there!
-Jordan and Heather
Walking outside I start to think winter might be getting here soon. I am really not ready for that yet 😦
we might make it to November without snow, but its getting a lot colder all of a sudden.
Heather returned from her loooong trip to KC last night. She brought back all kinds of exciting things! Such as an example of our completed wedding invitations, and a really cool Nebraska Football themed quilt her mom made for me, given as a birthday present. I might get a picture of the quilt up at some point. The invitations you will just have to hope to be on the list to get one in the mail 🙂
I tried a recipe I found for some low-sugar peanut butter cookies yesterday afternoon. Had the dough all ready when Heather came back, and we tried a few fresh out of the oven. Sadly no pictures, but I trust you can all imagine a peanut butter cookie. The verdict? Splenda sweetened baking still tastes a little different than “normal” cookies, but they were really quite good.
-Jordan
Its now three months until the wedding. October 24th – January 24th… its also 91 days until the wedding if the countdown I have been running is setup correctly. With two major holidays and my birthday in the upcoming months, I have a feeling they will go buy fast.
At the same time I haven’t seen Heather in almost four days, and won’t see her for another two! I know, I know…. we are both spoiled, but it just makes this week seem really long and I wonder what its going to be like once Heather is living in Blair.
In other news, I just found out Left 4 Dead won’t run on my gaming rig. I knew the day a game completely eclipsed my PC with hardware requirements was going to happen sooner or later, I just didn’t expect it quite yet.
Have I mentioned I will be spending my Friday night alone? blah… its just not the greatest day 🙂
-Jordan
I just got word from Heather a few hours ago that we cannot take pictures at the art museum like we had hoped. The museum was going to be a pain to schedule, and I had some doubts as to how awesome the inside was really going to be for pictures, but its still disappointing to loose it as an option.
We looked at the Durham Western Heritage Museum as a picture option, but they also have a lot of hoops to jump through, and really lack anything compelling other than a few old benches. There are some really majestic things there, but they are all 80+ feet off the ground, therefore unhelpful in picture taking.
Our only remaining option now is the botanical gardens. The gardens have some really really neat areas that would make for awesome fall / spring pictures, and given a nice day, some cool winter pictures too. They have an indoor area, but we don’t yet know what the post-Christmas theme in there will be. It may or may not be a nice picture backdrop, and the indoor space is somewhat limited there anyway.
It would be nice to have a few more options for indoor picture locations in Omaha, but so far Heather and I haven’t come up with any. I think there have to be some local hotels or something that might have a fairly ornate lobby. I suppose we don’t need that much, how many people look at the background to a wedding picture? Still it would be fun to have something really cool to use.
If readers have any ideas, feel free to post them in the comments 🙂
-Jordan
The wedding is just 100 days away now.
That seems like such a huge number, but I am sure it won’t have seemed that long by the end.
On the bright side, I think Heather and I have gotten nearly everything taken care of for the wedding. Heather and her mom deserve most of the credit for that, I really haven’t done too much. All the same, its exciting to feel like we are ahead of the game for planning.
Now if the day would just get here 🙂
-Jordan
Trying to get all the remaining addresses found to get to Heather’s mom so invites can be sent out.
I have no idea how people did this without text messages and Facebook… I guess it just took a lot longer.
We also need to start building a list of people to ask to help out day of the wedding:
Not that I think people would complain that much about being asked to help out, but that list may be one of the harder parts of the wedding planning… I hate asking people to do stuff I could do myself (not that I can be the groom and cut the cake for everyone, but I am fully capable…)
-Jordan
Sunday, I did sound at church, so everyone opted for second service. My parents, Bethany, Andrew, and Heather all came to Church. After church, Heather and mom had a chance to talk some about what plans we had for the wedding and decorating the building. We then headed to lunch. We had lunch at Le Peep, a breakfast / brunch / lunch place, where Andrew faced the dilemma of biscuits and gravy vs his restaurant standard cheeseburger. In the end he wound up with the burger, and seemed pretty happy with it.
After lunch we said our goodbyes and everyone headed home. Everyone except Heather and I…. we said “hey Target is right here, lets just register and be done with it.” So our next stop was Target.
Registering at Target: Let me start off by saying the system they have at Target is roughly 100000.5 times better than Bed Bath and Beyond’s. To start off nobody sits you down and tries to tell you how bad you need to have $100+ a place sitting china on your list. Second, and this won’t be as big of a deal for everyone but we just typed in our own information, and I prefer typing to having to fill out forms with little blanks and bad labels. Finally, the scanner they gave us had a real user interface.
The BB&B scanner was a 8 line LCD screen, a keypad, and a scanner. If you want to remove something from your list, scan the bar-code on this piece of paper! If you want to put two of an item on your list, it’s easy! Just remember to press ‘M’ then “enter” then the number of items you want. No the on-screen text wont really help you, and if you press the wrong key… well you wont have any idea if the item you scanned is even still on the list, the screen will just display some dire warning about incorrect UPC codes. Whats that? you wanted to see whats on your list? Go home and check on our website! We here at the store can’t even tell, but wait a day or so for the website because we have to type up that form you filled out a minute ago. Need to remove the item you scanned 2 items ago? Have we mentioned you can edit your list on the website? Because we don’t really have any access here… oh and isn’t this china shiny? Why are you scanning that item again, you clearly already scanned it… oh because you wanted two of them and though our interface was “clunky” well sorry, you will have to go through the user interface.
The Target scanner was basically a PDA with a pistol grip, but it had a very well done user interface. The scanner felt better in your hand, the scan beam was brighter, making it easier to aim and it seemed to pick up UPC codes with less waggling. The display was large, color, and a touch-screen, with nice options so you could add multiple items, browse your list, remove items at will, or just marvel at the pleasure of holding a device designed for the end-user. Also, scanning something twice? Adds two of them to your list!
I know I didn’t say much about the scanner when I mentioned getting registered at BB&B, but that was because at the time I just assumed the scanner was suppose to suck. In the end I guess maybe the scanner didn’t change the fact that there wasn’t a ton of stuff we felt we could use at Target, so BB&B may have the last laugh in the registry department.
Some people say doing all that is “fun”… to me its still shopping… I get to do it with Heather so its not so bad, but I am glad we are done with it. As of right now we have a grand total of 200 items across all our registries, and from what the lady at BB&B said, that number is much too low, and we will have guests complaining. I think at this point I would tell them to please come to the wedding without a gift, or write us a nice card that we can look at when we aren’t so overwhelmed. Just the card would be fine, I really don’t know what I would do with a gift-card at this point, assuming most of the list was already taken I literally don’t need ANYTHING more from those stores. Include cash if you insist on giving us something, we can speed up paying off one of our cars.
-Jordan
This post is a few days late because I was slow getting the images off my camera… better late than never right?
Saturday and Sunday Heather and I looked into cake options for our wedding.
First up was Hy-Vee, but after a phone call by Heather we found out the “just drop by whenever” time frame they had given her wasn’t really going to work because the only person who could talk about wedding cakes was going to be gone in a few minutes, but she was nice enough to explain some of the basic details of what they offer, overall cost and cost per serving. The actual sit-down with them is still pending.
Next up was The Cakery, an aptly named specialty shop. They had a really good array of mock cakes showing some of their basic styles. Seven to nine full-sized wedding cakes takes up a lot of floor-space, but it was helpful to actually have something to look at, because translating the idea you have in your head to something you can talk about is surprisingly hard for something as iconic as a wedding cake. We got there a little early so had plenty of time to look at the example cakes before they sat us down to look at their library of pictures from different wedding cakes. Again they had an amazing wealth of examples of cakes, and fairly good presentation in the book. On a tangent, let me say that some people do some ridiculous cakes. I really don’t know how many guests you would need to eat some of those cakes, but I am thinking 500+ for more than a few in that book. Okay, back to the cakery, did I mention they had four small cakes for us to sample? I was the designated cake tester (verdict: “meh, its cake”) so I ate while Heather tackled the challenge of getting herself and the decorator on the same page for a cake design. We left there feeling like we had a really good idea what the cake should look like.
Its at this point that my Escape failed to start.
Our next, and Final stop was Wheat Fields, a destination so legendary among Omaha denizens we recruited additional party members for our expedition.

Or maybe it just worked out that Pam (Heather’s mother) and Elise (bridesmaid) were both in town, but it was nice to have them along. Wheat Fields is a bakery and restaurant, and standing in the bakery / lobby area it was easy to see how it gained the reputation it has. We then stood nearly-drooling over all the fresh baked deserts and breads for almost 20 minutes waiting for the sole cake decorator to appear out of the back room. She was a grandmotherly lady, a little flustered at first, but she knew a lot about cakes, and how to plan one for a wedding. They had maybe 30 pictures of past wedding cakes, mostly bad. At this point things were not looking good for Wheat Fields in the selection process, but then they brought out the cake:

I cannot begin to impress upon you how richly this cake deserves its reputation. Hands down the best cake I have ever had, no question. They were all pretty good but their flavor “wedding cake” is the one everyone is talking about if they say something about a cake from Wheat Fields.
At this point we haven’t technically chosen a cake option, but I can tell you Wheat Fields is the leading contender. When your reception consists of only cake, its hard to not rationalize getting really really good cake for it.
I do wonder what our though process would have been if we had done these stops in a different order. Hy-Vee was helpful because it established what cheap-but-professional-and-good cake would cost. The Cakery gave us a great set of examples to realize the range of options in appearance, and figure out what we actually wanted for a look. Wheat Fields changed our minds from the idea that “cake is cake” to thinking that there was some really good cake out there. We literally finished our interactions with each place thinking we would probably just go with them, but what the heck, lets try the next one.
in closing, you should come to my wedding! There will be cake! 🙂
-Jordan
So, Heather bought her wedding dress last night. I suppose I knew these things, but two things really hit me as she was shopping, and even more so once she bought it.
There are a lot of reasons to look forward to the wedding, but I never expected this would be something on the list 🙂
-Jordan
149 days untill the wedding…
complete:
In progress:
To do:
I am sure there are other things in all categoies I have forgotten, but this post can serve as perspective 4 months from now when I don’t think we are making progress 🙂
-Jordan